An anonymous man once said, “Prostitutes have very improperly been styled women of pleasure; they are women of pain, or sorrow, of grief, of bitter and continual repentance,…”
If you’re a woman, you may be wondering why a married man needs to visit a call girl or an escort and pay money for sex when he has a wife always available at home. Or why would a single man buy sex when he can be with his significant other who is for sure will be more than willing to engage in this most intimate of acts.
According to an article published by Scientific American, experts are debating on these same questions without being able to come to a conclusion. The reason for this may be the fact that one of the motivating aspects of men calling escorts or call girls is complex and diverse. This means that there is no particular reason for this kind of behaviour.
Still according to the article, different studies reveals that the percentage of men who contact escorts differs from one country to the next with the range estimated between 16 per cent in countries like the United States, to 90 per cent in countries like Thailand. A more precise range is around 16 to 39 per cent of men call escorts worldwide. These men who regularly seek the services of escorts cut across all economic social class, age and racial lines.
Here are some probable reasons why men seek escorts or call girls, keeping in mind that there is no single reason for all men.
• There are men who are driven by an uncontrollable need to have sex. This can be true not just for men but for women as well. However, with men, they are driven by this force of not getting enough and to get as much as they can they seek for escorts or call girls.
• In relation to the first reason on the list, there are men driven by an insatiable need for sexual pleasure from different women. Without it they are in a continuous state of frustration.
• There are men who think that it is risky to dive in a real relationship for a number of reasons which includes the fear of real intimacy. For these kinds of men, a regular visit from the same escort creates this fantasy of a real relationship.
• There are experts who believe that men who frequent escorts or call girls have a real hidden hatred for women. Misogyny is the term used to describe hatred to women. These men with these ill feelings on women thinks that women are made to be submissive and the process of paying them for sexual favors is a way to humiliate them further.
There are numerous people who believe that the real cause of the adult escort industry is the male demand. Hence, it is thought that such things as making men understand and decreasing the demand for the sex trade are the real solution for this.